All tagged Money Education
This blog post results from a brief yet alarming conversation I had with a 15-year-old who has three years remaining at school before they planned to head off to university. In answer to my question, “how are you going to pay for it,” they quickly replied, “with student loans, because they are interest-free”. It was not my place to comment at the time (although in my head I was screaming to say something), but given I write a blog, I’ve created a space where I can give their response some thought. So, I will.
I’ve been thinking about the concept of “natural spender and natural saver” for quite some time. When people email me, they will often reference themselves as being very clearly one or the other. They have popped themselves into a category and then used that to explain their views and actions around how and why they handle their pūtea (money) the way they do. It’s never sat quite right with me, and it feels too restrictive and concrete to categorise yourself that way.
The title of this blog post will have invoked a response in you or either: What an entitled brat! OR How did she afford that? Stick around for the breakdown though and you might just learn something that you can use in your own parenting journey. Or not, you decide. But I’m pretty sure your teenager won’t want you to read this post!
It’s not something I’ve ever really thought deeply about before, but in the back of my mind, I’ve always just assumed that we would never let our daughter borrow money from us. It seems pretty obvious to me - and I’m speaking entirely about myself here - that’s because I feel particularly strongly about teaching good money principles to my daughter and I would feel like a failure as a parent if there comes a point that she has failed to plan ahead and I have to lend her money.
Before I started The Happy Saver I thought the only way to learn about money was to seek out a financial advisor, the supposed experts in the field, so I did go to a couple of financial advisors. As a result of these attempts I completely gave up on letting anyone else tell me what to do with my own money and decided that no one cared more about it than I did myself so I decided to take matters into my own hands and educate myself. I did it by actively taking an interest in my/our money and reading, listening, asking and deep-diving into all things personal finance related.
I have the privilege to speak to so many people about “money stuff” and a very common scenario is that of a couple who have been together for a long time yet they still keep their money completely separate from each other. If you are committed to him or her being “the one”, you trust each other and have combined everything else in your life (your wardrobe, the bathroom cabinet, your home, your children, your pets), then why not your money?
As part of the Sorted Money Week, I recently asked you to send me your money-related questions, which of course you did. I’ve selected a bunch of them and given my thoughts on each, plus added in a few links and resources to round out the answers for you.
So, this week I thought I would share some of the really positive snippets and lessons that I’ve taken from the emails I’ve received from many of you in the month of May because you say SUCH GOOD STUFF.
There has been quite an increase in questions over the last couple of weeks, which is not at all surprising given how much uncertainty is out there. And this week, having answered so many emails, plus I was finishing writing and recording my final podcast episode of this series, I’ve not quite gotten around to a new blog post. So this week I’ve decided to republish a post I wrote back in 2017 because I feel that it’s still very relevant today.
